Goodbye Sunshine 18 years. Constancy consoling me through mother's death, divorce daughter's departure pandemic abandonment I miss the gray and white wisp of you your tail's encompassing curl your feline nonchalance in the face of canine consternation rescue In this year of enormous losses how does my losing you rank in the hierarchy of grief? Must I justify the measure of loss I'm allowed to feel? No. No: Love, any love, touches what's infinite
— by Lisa Sarasohn, based on excerpts from
the Well newsletter by Tara Parker-Pope,
The New York Times, March 4, 2021