purple and white pansies
Goodbye Sunshine

18 years. Constancy
consoling me through
mother's death, divorce
daughter's departure
       pandemic abandonment
 
I miss the gray and white wisp of you
your tail's encompassing curl
your feline nonchalance in the
face of canine consternation
       rescue
 
In this year of enormous losses
how does my losing you rank
in the hierarchy of grief?
Must I justify the measure of loss
       I'm allowed to feel?

No. No: Love, any love, touches
       what's infinite

— by Lisa Sarasohn, based on excerpts from
the Well newsletter by Tara Parker-Pope,
The New York Times, March 4, 2021